What else is it that helps our family unschool?
For me it is prayer.
I cannot see how one can unschool, can live one’s life as an open book for one’s children, can share every day, highs and lows, sorrows and joys, busyness and minutiae, without prayer.
Without prayer, my unschooling life would be a hive of activity, needing bolstering with reading and affirmations and subject to individualism.
With prayer underpinning my efforts as an unschooling mum, our busyness can be mindful, our interest driven education and lifestyle can be part of a bigger picture of life as a Christian, in the Church, with service for others.
“All the basic themes are the one you have noted: Do not become utterly absorbed in activism! There would be so much to do that one could be working on it constantly. And that is precisely the wrong thing. Not becoming totally absorbed in activism means maintaining considerario, discretion, deeper examination, contemplation, time for interior pondering, vision, and dealing with things, remaining with God and meditating about God. ” Pope Benedict XVI, Light of the World.
Would I be able to unschool without prayer, without this meditation about God? Well, as often as family life provides comfort and satisfaction, as often as I may enjoy the juggling act of work and family, there are many times when things fall…the juggle becomes a heap, a mess. It is prayer that lifts me up from the sometimes messiness of an unschooling life to the experience of Our Lord, His Love…and the purpose of it all.
Prayer snatches me from the everydayness and pushes me towards God, reminding me to be faithful in my vocation, to live with purpose, to share my life unceasingly. To unschool.
That sursum corda in the mass, when my heart and mind is lifted up to the Lord so that I receive the grace to continue in my vocation.
The Holy Father wrote, of liturgy, of public prayer “…the decisive thing is that we enter into something that is much greater. That we can get out of ourselves, as it were, and into the wide open spaces….liturgy, in truth, is an event by means of which we let ourselves be introduced into the expansive faith and prayer of the Church.” (Light of the World)
Talking about unschooling resources? Don’t forget prayer.