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All Hallows Eve and Wednesday Religion

Today’s religion reading centred on the eighth commandment – thou shalt not bear false witness. What does that mean for our every day life, for all we say and do?

We also discussed the saints – this is the week of All Saints, isn’t it? Thomas read about the martyrs, about the Doctors of the Church, of St Athanasius and the Arian heresy, of St Benedict and monasticism.

Alexander is yet to complete and share his religion reading…He has a love/hate relationship with his Scott Hahn book. Hates the writing style and loves it when he finishes a section!

And ~ We also celebrated All Hallow’s Eve.

The Solemnity of All Saints is celebrated on November 1. It is a Solemnity,it is the day that the Church honours all of God’s saints, even those who have not been canonized by the Church.Pope Sixtus IV in 1484 established November 1 as a holyday of obligation and gave it a vigil (known today as “All Hallows’ Eve” or “Hallowe’en”).

The Church recognizes Solemnities and Sundays as high feast days that last longer than a day. The celebration starts the evening before, as mentioned in The General Norms for the Liturgical Year and the Calendar: “Solemnities are counted as the principal days in the calendar and their observance begins with evening prayer of the preceding day. Some also have their own vigil Mass for use when Mass is celebrated in the evening of the preceding day. “

In England, saints or holy people are called “hallowed”, hence the name “All Hallow’s Day”. The evening, or “e’en” before the feast became popularly known as “All Hallows’ Eve” or even shorter, “Hallowe’en”.

November 2 was the date designated to pray for all the departed souls in Purgatory, the Feast of All Souls. The feasts of All Saints and All Souls fall back to back to express the Christian belief of the “Communion of Saints.” The Communion of Saints is the union of all the faithful on earth (the Church militant), the saints in Heaven (the Church Triumphant) and the Poor Souls in Purgatory (the Church suffering), with Christ as the Head. They are bound together by a supernatural bond, and can help one another. The Church Militant (those on earth still engaged in the struggle to save their souls) can venerate the Church Triumphant, and those saints can intercede with God for those still on earth. Both the faithful on earth and the saints in heaven can pray for the souls in Purgatory

On All Souls Day and November 1-8 one can gain plenary indulgences for the Poor Souls.

We tried to remember some of these concepts and talked of indulgences, while having an All Hallows Eve mini party.

Made paper chains and blew up balloons.

We bobbed for apples. We had donut eating contests. We ate nibbles, had a barbecue, ate sweets.

And laughed. Enjoyed the company of family and friends. Don’t our kids and friends look great, dressed up? Dh with “hump” on his back. Me , in pink, trying to eat a donut – hands free!

Prayed the De Profundis for the dead ~ “Out of the depths I have cried unto thee, O Lord…”

Tomorrow we’ll pray the Litany of the Saints, and attend Mass.

Happy All Saints to all! And thanks to those who attended our mini party!

Life

A morning of unschooling…

Friends have recently discussed their feelings of inadequacy ~ are they doing enough schoolwork? Looking at curriculum lists and at homeschool blogs makes them feel bad….

In the interest of making everyone feel better, I am going to post today’s unschooling morning. Feel inadeqate? Read this post and you’ll feel better – bet you do more creative stuff with your mornings!

After waking everyone up, I organized laundry, hung out washing on the line, tidied up. Kids made their own breakfast – one had apple pie and ice cream, one had just ice cream, two had yogurt and cereal. Thank heaven, someone ate something healthy! I eat after my workout – planned on porridge and banana and skim milk today….

We cleaned up the kitchen then, while kids did their fitness routines ( yoga, trampolining, the Canadian Air Force 5BX programme, a medicine ball routine from Men’s Health magazine..) and tidied rooms and played computer/video games, checke email and played guitar and piano ~ I worked out. Turbo Jam then a circuit workout from Prevention. I rocked ( modesty here) – 70 minutes of fun!

I returned a phone call to a friend, Jonathon began uni work on the computer and work for his graphic arts part time job. Alexander finished his Kumon Maths booklet. The rest of us got ready to meet same friend and homeschooled son for coffee.

Alexander has his Learners Driver permit so he drove us all to our parish’s office, to drop off info for an upcoming parish survey and some items for the church bulletin. While he and I were chatting with the secretary ( is that what we call her??? She is nice and friendly!) in the parish office, Thomas and Anthony went into the church to light candles. Our kids have a lighting-candle-fetish.

Off to morning tea at a local shopping centre. Had our snack, friend and I had a long talk about some issues and the kids talked and visited Dymocks, a book store. Spending time in a book store, perusing books and talking about books with friends is a cool way to spend a school morning, don’t you think?

We are making books this term, our usual Term 4 and pre Advent activity, using ideas from Creating Books With Children by Valerie Bendt. Looking at title pages, at drawing books, at dust jackets in Dymocks gave the boys lots of ideas. And soothed my doubts about neglecting any educational activity at all. It is educational. Right?

Morning tea was coffee for me, tea for my friend, McDonalds for friend’s son and two of my sons, Quiche Lorriane for another son. At the local food hall. Makes up for the apple pie breakfast? Not.

Saw another homeschool friend and daughter, off to lunch. Shops and lunch was their planned homeschool activity…Sound familiar?

Went to the grocery store to buy supplies for All Hallow’s Eve and All Saints, to the post office ( mailing a parcel to Italy, interesting discussion on postal rates and shipping). Drove home, kids reading in the car – Thomas :”Carry On Jeeves” by P G Wodehouse; Anthony :a manual on rpgs – picked up Jonathon, met Gerry ( dh) for lunch – at Subway. Hey, healthy food at last!

You know, we must be on a new grocery budget – feeding the family for a huge amount of dollars each week, by eating out a lot! lol! You know, you read about homeschoolers at home, doing a lot of cooking and baking, saving money. We go through fits and starts – eat home and cook, or eat out and rarely cook……

We read about St Simon and St Jude, Alexander is now off to part time work at Kumon and Thomas and Anthony are folding junk mail for their midweek deliver round . Work education, in syllabus terms. I aim to do phone calls and paperwork and planning for my Kumon centre .

I have checked online for any news ( current events) to share with the kids – no, I think I’ll skip the headlines, about Britney Spears and a “priest”. No current events education today!

So, don’t feel bad, fellow homeschoolers. We all have unschooly mornings now and then – they just happen more frequently, and with less guilt perhaps, in a home where “education is life”.

And tomorrow is another day – actually a very busy day planned. But we’ll fit in our weekly dose of Wednesday Religion. Stay tuned!

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Celebrating the Liturgical Year

This morning, I am planning for some activities. Activities to celebrate the liturgy this week.

Wednesday, October 31 is All Hallow’s Eve. Last year we made sweets and black and gold paper chains. Shared our fudge with friends. We had a special dinner for All Saints. And made Soul Cakes for All Souls. Attending Masses, of course, and saying the usual prayers, too….

I was thinking that this year, we could have a mini party. A family party? Perhaps invite others? You, know, Catholics Give the Best Parties. I mean, why shouldn’t we laugh and have fun, even while remembering the liturgical year, after praying for All Souls , after commemorating the Feast of All Saints?

We can pray the De Profundis – and here is an interesting article describing the use of the De Profundus in contemporary and popular culture.

We can also pray the Litany of All Saints. ( As an aside – this was sung in Latin at Anthony’s baptism. Beautiful.)

Perhaps have some apple bobbing and a donut eating contest – maybe a barbecue followed by some sweets. Lollies. Homemade or otherwise….

Maybe make some Coffee Braid and some Dead Bones Cookies.

Life

Joining the Thin Club

This is the new book I am reading. Finished “Secrets of a Former Fat Girl” ( but I will re-read it sometime soon. There are things I need to digest – ah, I mean, think about!).

Do you see a pattern in my reading?

You know, I could be finishing the translation of Dante that I started a few months ago. Or be finishing Pope Benedict ‘s “Jesus of Nazareth” – which I also began a few months ago.Or I could be reading something challenging on education for work or a good book on home schooling and mothering .
For my life.

But, no. I am shallow. I am stuck in the realm of diet and fitness! lol!

So, back to the book “Joining the Thin Club”.

It is not a humorous read, unlike Delaney’s book. Former Fat Girl was fun.

This is more serious in tone. Yet, still very interesting. The focus, again, is on the mind and on body image. With a dash of practical tips for weight loss and weight maintenance.

The Thin Club is a state of mind. It is the balance of your life that enables you to understand what is truly important versus what is not so important. When food is your focus, the layer cake becomes a goal. When food is the means to a greater end – a way of fueling your body, staving off hunger and sanctifying where it comes from–it all starts to make sense. And the layer cake will no longer matter.

Well, I am not tempted by layer cake – my temptations lie in the realm of savoury foods, alcohol, nuts, pepper cheese, cheese with a bite…But I see the point. We work on ourselves and on healthy habits.

What other fitness books am I coveting?

I like the sound of The Skinny, Skinny Bitch in the Kitch and The Incredible Shrinking Critic.

I am such a good role model for my kids – see the serious books I am, well, lusting after, see the classics I am reading? Ha, ha!!

I promise that I’ll go back to better books soon. Really. Once I get my mind off this whole weight thing.

And I won’t complain when Anthony re-reads his Phantom comic!

( That’s why I am an unschooler ~ it all counts. 🙂 )

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Postcards from the Edge.

Not the movie, with Carrie Fisher, Meryl Streep, Shirley MacLaine.

But our Thursday morning.

We are part of a postcard exchange with some internet friends. We will send postcards from Sydney to these friends from other parts of the world. They will send postcards in return.

We wrote and addressed our cards yesterday.

A fun geographical exchange!

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A pang of envy

Warning – negative post. Posted in the interest of sharing with friends and keeping it real. Feel free to skip!

Now, it is not a nice thing to admit – that feeling of envy.

Yet, that is where I was at, yesterday.

Friends told me they were expecting another child. One said they had decided to try for another child ~ and, it happened~! Another said it was unexepected and she felt unhappy but knew she would come to grips with a new baby.

I rejoiced for these friends, I offered support for the one struggling to accept her pregnancy.

But I also felt a pang of envy.

I have longed for another child. It looks like it just ain’t gonna be. I’m kinda old. :-(. [No, not kinda old ~ definitely old, says the little voice in my head. Sigh!]

I spent my thirties suffering health problems and resultant infertility. And depression. And weight gain.

Then, now in my forties, I have battled the health demons, lost weight, have had several pregnancies – all resulting in miscarriage. In DVTs ( I have a genetic blood clotting disorder). In hospitalization.

I am thankful for the seven healthy children I have. I love my sons, in spite of my failings as a mother! I am also thankful for the many other little souls that I miscarried. I know that God has different plans for different people.

And I am not a spoilsport. I am truly happy for my friends. I know my friend with the “unexpected” pregnancy will come to love this child.

But, yesterday, I still felt that little pang of envy.
Sometimes, I am not a very nice person. Blah.
And now I’m feeling bad about posting. But I think I should go ahead and hit publish anyway. Maybe someone can relate…
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Secrets of a Former Fat Girl

No – not my secrets! I’m still a fat girl ( well, sort of – but getting thinner! lol!).

But the above blog caption is the title of a book that I am currently reading (currently devouring – uh oh, food words again!) ~ a book by Lisa Delaney.

It is light hearted. It is witty. Delaney is not frightened to laugh at herself. I like that. It feels familiar.

However, as I delve deeper into the book, I sense its poignancy. How society judges one based on looks. The pain this can cause.

To be honest, I am also finding “Secrets of a FormerFat Girl” to be very helpful. The main “secret’ is that it is all about your mind. Get the mind stuff fixed first, and everything else will follow.

Delaney recommends exercise as a way of getting fit, starting out, feeling strong, feeling powerful.

I couldn’t agree more. Especially after my fun and tough hour long Taebo Advanced Live workout this morning.

Delaney discusses diet rules – now, don’t throw the keyboard at me in disgust! These are not your typical diet rules, but concepts applicable to your own life. Self written. Individualized. Manageable.

Delaney states that, inadvertantly or not, we all have some diet rules. Perhaps we tell ourselves that we love chocolate ( or margaritas and G & Ts, in my case) . Or that we can’t stop eating nuts, can’t stop at one small handful of cashew nuts.

Her idea is to re-write these rules, re-work them into positive helps for a healthy diet and for fitness.

For example – I work out every day.

I love cardio.

I eat a healthy snack in the afternoon.

I leave food on my plate.

Starting with just two “rules”.

And so on. Ad nauseum, I guess, to some. But useful for people like me, people with food issues.

But not obsessive – not like the film The Devil Wears Prada – ” You don’t deserve the job. You eat carbs!”. Gasp. Made me laugh… Love that film.